Personality – Destiny Identifier – Are You an Exhorter?

Are You an Exhorter?

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The fourth Destiny Identifier™ we will discuss today is Exhorter

16% of the population score Exhorter first. They are the mouth of the body.

Exhorter – to give urgent advice, recommendations, or cautions and warnings, to urge, advise, or caution earnestly; admonish urgently. To urge or persuade earnestly; advise strongly

Exhorters are people, people. They love to be around people, doing things with people or for them. They are the life of the party and love to have fun. They are highly creative, enthusiastic and are very persuasive.

They love to encourage others to live up to their full potential. They want everyone to have a full meaningful life. Their greatest joy is being an instrument to help another person live victoriously.

They like interaction with those they teach. They are very observant as they watch for reactions on people’s faces and analyze body language. That is why they make great salespeople and evangelists. The most frustrating thing for an exhorter is to share something of value and then find out the person wasn’t listening or paying attention.

They are great at prescribing steps of action to aid in personal growth.  They know how to instruct a person to get from A to Z in the best possible way.

They like to win with flair and love competition. They are always for the underdog. They make the unpopular feel popular. They are fluent in communication and as children usually talk a lot. Let them as this is their most treasured gift.

Exhorters view trials as personal growth. They also accept people without judging them. They are usually well liked because of their positive attitude. They are masters of reconciliation because they hate strained relationships.

They have great zeal for life and embrace change and spontaneity.  They hardly ever look back on things and are very future oriented. They are great at influencing and like the Teacher love to learn. However their learning is so they can improve themselves and then give you steps on how to improve.

Exhorters spend a considerable amount of time changing themselves to become a better person. They are very transparent people and don’t mind telling you about their hardships if it will help you not have to go through what they did. They expect a lot of self and others. They always complete what they start and make decisions quickly.

They hate conflict and want to clear it up quickly. They also like a sounding board to bounce off their ideas.

Examples of Exhorters are: Ronald Reagan, Joan of Arc, Billy Graham, and Louisa May Alcott  

Biblical examples are: Paul, Barnabas, Esther and Joseph

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Personality – Destiny Identifier – Are You a Teacher

Are You a Teacher?

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The third Destiny Identifier™ we will discuss is TEACHER.

6% of the population will score Teacher first. They are the mind of the body.

Teacher – a person who teaches or instructs, especially as a profession; instructor

Teacher does not mean that you will be in the profession of Teacher or Professor; however, many are because it is the gift of teaching others.

Teachers are very analytical and detailed. They tend to be very cautious in everything they do especially in making new friends. They usually only have one or two very close friends.

They are very bright and love to learn. They love research and discovering new things, but only if it interest them. Many people with the gift of teaching either go on to get advanced degrees, or, they never earn their degree at all, because they have so many varied interests they cannot focus on just one thing. However, they are the smartest out of all the Destiny Identifiers.

They love word studies and always validate the truth by checking out the facts.They tend to be more objective then subjective.

Teachers can get overwhelmed easily so they are careful about getting involved in too many things.  They tend to like to stay up late and have their alone time. They usually do not like crowds or parties unless they know the people and have an interest in going.

They are usually very respectful people and very loyal. As children, many are not as much into sports as they are music, theatre, acting, or reading a good book.

Teachers are very good at anything related to the computer and people with high teacher and the G-I-F-T personality "T", which we will discuss later, are usually the ones that call themselves, geeks.

They make very loyal mates, however, in this day and age; the men have to be careful not to spend so much time on the computer that they neglect their wife and family. Opposites usually attract, so they usually marry someone who is more outgoing and wants to be with them. They have to learn balance and compromise more than others. All Destiny Identifiers have a code they live by and the Teacher's code is the only one that is about themselves. It pertains to what they are interested in, so they have to be aware of going along with what others want sometimes over their wants.

Teachers are VERY self controlled and remain calm even in the most devastating of times. They are very introspective and usually hold their feelings in, unlike the Perceiver or Exhorter, who make sure they express how they feel. Teachers must learn to let things go and turn off their brains so they can sleep at night. It is harder for them to sleep because of their constant thinking.

They believer that truth itself has the power to produce change. They have very strong opinions and convictions based on their investigation of facts. They out of all theDestiny  Identifiers have a harder time with faith.

Examples of Servers are: Bill Gates, Jackie Kennedy, Albert Einstein, and Maya Angelou

Biblical examples are: Luke, Timothy, Lois and Eunice

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Personality – Destiny Identifier – Server

Are You A Server?

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The Second Destiny Identifier we will discuss today is SERVER.

17% of the population score this identifier first. They are the hands of the body.

Server – a person in the service of another; an act of helpful activity; help;aid.

Server, like Perceiver's lead with action first. They like their name love to serve others. They love movement and hardly ever stop and sit down.

Where a Perceiver loves to start things, a Server loves to complete things. They wake up every morning with their list of to do's in their head and cannot wait  to write them down, then cross them off the list.

They are very dependable people and have the abilitiy to see a need and then fill it. They are great with their hands and many of them like professions using their hands.

They also like you to be grateful for the work they do for you. A simple thank you goes a long way with a server. However, if married to a Server, it is important that you help with the chores as well. They will usually have a long list of things they need you to get done. Children of servers sually never end up lazy. The Server will make sure of that.

Servers are very attentive, diligent, obedient, orderly, punctual and trustworthy. They are usually at work on time and you rarely have to tell them what to do to get started. They typically are asking you what needs to get done first.

Servers pay attention to detail and like short range goals. They are good at repetitive tasks and have a high energy level. If you are at a party they will be the last ones in the kitchen or room helping the host clean up.

They usually keep everything in meticuloue order and have a good memory. They do have a hard time saying no for requests for help.

They enjoy showing hospitatility and meeting others need before their own. They tend to show you love through their actions more so than their words.

Typically servers do not want to lead others or projects. They rather follow. God made them that way. If leadership is forced on them they get frustrated. They also do not like to be singled out even if you are bragging on them. They rather you come to them one on one and pay the compliment then. But they love supporting others in leadership positions, this is their top priority in life, serving others.

They tend to be perfectionists and cannot stand to be around clutter or messiness. They prefer doing a job over delegating it therefore, they can wear themselves out. Their biggest need is learning to sit down and relax.

Servers make great friends becasue they are always there to help you out. However, they must realize that not everyone was gifted to always be moving and doing things, so just becasue they don't, does not mean they are lazy. remember there are only two action identifiers, but thank goodness a large majority of the population are Servers and Perceivers, or, things might not ever get done on time or even started to begin with.

Examples of Servers are: Walt Disney, Jimmy Carter, Martha Stewart

Bibilical examples are: Moses, Martha, Timothy,  and Phoebe

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Life Purpose – Do You Know Yours Yet?

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Do you have a life purpose? Have you ever thought about writing it down?

Many people I talk to virtually all have the same issues with life. They all want to be able to give back to society in a meaningful way and they all want to know their life purpose.

The unfortunate thing is that most people I talk to feel they have not contributed enough to society and the majority are clueless about their distinct life purpose on this planet.

A person's life purpose is crucial. You must find out what you were created to do on this planet. Once you know your God given purpose, you are driven by it.  You wake up trying to figure out how you are going to achieve it. You prepare for it, you dream about it, set goals for it, and you live to fulfill it every day.

Why? Because you were created for it. It is not a mere feeling; it is an internal force of nature. God will always make a way even if you are broke and there seems no way.

Please do not confuse your life purpose with your current job. Many times it has nothing to do with that, however, it can.  But know this: Your life purpose always starts with God. Without him, it is your life purpose, not his. Will it still work? Yes. Will it do the work of eternity? No. Here lies the difference. Something I did not know until I got alone with God and asked.

The reason we have so much addiction in society as well as depression and suicidal tendencies is because many of us feel hopeless or insignificant. We have nothing outside of ourselves to believe in. Or, if we do, we do not know how to tap into it. We are ridden with guilt and shame and we have bought the lie.

The lie that God sits around judging us waiting on us to become perfect. He is nothing like that at all. Please listen to me. He offers grace, mercy and love. Period!

So you ask does the spiritual side really matter in life. Yes, it does. You don't bring pleasure or glory to God by hiding your abilities and trying to be someone else. You were created on purpose, for a purpose, and with a purpose. Everyone's life is driven by something and if not by God's inspiration then we tend to make up our own purpose.

But when we get alone and ask him what he wants us to do and then sit and listen, he will answer. Then all the steps fall into order because it is what you were designed to do. It is what makes your heart skip a beat. It is what makes you extremely happy and content because you were born to do it.

It drives your life. You will find the most joy you have ever had when you discover what God put you here to achieve. You no longer have to be driven by the need for approval, or millions of dollars, or anything else for that matter. It is the utter fulfillment.

You don't have to be the smartest, the wealthiest, the most creative or even the prettiest. When you get in sync with the creator of the universe and his perfect will for your life, you can move heaven.

I hope this will inspire you to see just how simple it is to find your purpose. All you need is time and the ability to ask God questions. Sit with a pen and paper and then let me know what He says. He loves you and just wants to hear from you from time to time.

Now – go find your life purpose!

 

Personality – Destiny Identifier – Perceiver

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The first Destiny Identifier™ we will discuss today is Perceiver.

12% of the population have this Destiny Identifier first. They are like the eyes of the body.

Perceiver – to recognize, discern, envision, or understand: to become aware of, know, or identify by means of the senses.

Individuals with the Destiny Identifier, Perceiver, will always act before they feel or think. They are risk takers and will willingly put themselves on the front line.

There are two Destiny Identifiers that operate out of extreme passion and the first one is Perceiver. Their passion is projects. They naturally get what needs to be done.

Perceivers are highly creative and have the ability to perceive people, situations and other's character. They are inspired speakers. They speak and are heard. They deliver warnings, exhortation, and instruction, judging and making manifest the secrets of the heart.

Perceivers are alert, bold, courageous, discerning, truthful and very integrious. They hate liars and people that try and deceive you. They perceive this in people very quickly.

Perceivers set high standards for themselves and everyone else. They see things as black and white with NO gray. They can identify good and evil very quickly and they tend to HATE evil.

They can boldly operate on spiritual principles and apply them to everyday life. They are very frank and outspoken and do not mince words. They are some of the most effective speakers. You will always pay attention to a perceiver.

They grieve deeply over the downfall of another person. They easily see a person’s blind spots as well as their own, and are eager to help someone see their blind spots so they can change.

They are very introspective and usually give great advice if they are moral. They have an opinion on just about everything and are not afraid to voice it. However, they are usually right about a situation and their advice always carries a ring of truth to it.

They have few friends but you would be wise to find a Perceive friend. They usually have impeccable morals if they are raised the right way and are in tune with God. Why? Because they desire to be obedient at all costs because they recognize the importance of it.

If they are not in tune with God they can be the most strong willed and hardheaded. They will challenge authority and as children if not taught obedience, their Destiny Identifier will remain polluted for the rest of their lives.

Perceivers are your entrepreneurs of the world and are great at starting things but not so good at finishing sometimes. They have to learn this trait. The strength of their personality is what makes them great leaders and many people will follow them if they are bent toward good. If they are not, they can be very caustic with their words and mean spirited.

They are masters of innovation and intuition. Ask a perceiver about a person or situation and you will usually get the right summation of the person or situation.

Perceivers are results-oriented and generally do not hold grudges or unforgiveness. They are honest, pioneering and forward thinking. They love to be in charge and are great at it.

Examples of Perceivers are: Donald Trump, General George Patton, Eleanor Roosevelt, and Rosa Parks.

Bibilical Examples are: John the Baptist, Peter, Deborah, Anna

To find out if you are a Perceiver or to learn more about yourself, click this link and take the Destiny Identifier profile.

 

 

Destiny Identifiers – What Are They?

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Did you know there are spiritual gifts you are born with that affect your destiny?

Has anyone ever told you these gifts which are called, DESTINY IDENTIFIERS™ impact everything you do?

They affect your purpose, your relationships, your communication with others, even your child rearing and marriage. They affect how you give love and receive it.

They affect how you manage people at work and how you perceive being managed.

They affect how you learn, study, and perceive life in general.

They affect whether you are a natural entrepreneur, or, if you rather run an existing company as CEO.

They tell you whether you are good with your hands and rather be a mechanic or hair stylist.

 They tell you if you are better suited for accounting or engineering.

They even tell you how you will most likely act in a volatile, stressful situation.

Your Destiny Identifiers™ have everything to do with your reason for being on this planet and yet the majority of people have not a clue to what they are.

There are seven Destiny Identifiers™. They are divided into three categories. Two of them are action, two of them are emotive, and three of them are cognitive. This simply means that you live your life from one, or, two of these categories completely.

Here are the names of the Destiny Identifiers in order of their three categories: Perceiver, Server, then, Exhorter, Mercy and lastly, Giver, Teacher, Developer.

Over the next few weeks as we go through what they all mean to you, life will begin to make much more sense. You will begin to understand your husband better, your children, and your co-workers.

If you want to take the Destiny Identifier Profile, click here to begin.

The information will open your eyes enormously.

 

 

Personality – Why You MUST Understand Yours

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It is vital you understand your Personality and Destiny Identifiers.

If everyone understood the four basic G-I-F-T personalities and the seven Destiny Identifiers™ in life then we would all understand each other and how we process life more effectively.

We would understand why some people act like jerks naturally and others are so passive they can't engage in conflict at all. 

We would solve most people issues and remove our frustration levels significantly.  Heck, we might even lower the 60% divorce rate and enhance our marriage troubles and miscommunications. Fewer fatherless homes, wouldn't that be great?

Unfortunately we are clueless about each other’s internal drivers and motivators. We have not addressed our internal filters that make each of our  Destiny Identifier's come to life. These seven Destiny Identifier's have an internal filter that make us who we are and show us how we feel loved and accepted. When we understand each filter then communicating with others is profound.

But not knowing or understanding them only creates more conflict.  Miscommunication is inevitable and the fight begins. 

We live life out of our own Destiny Identifiers and G-I-F-T Personality and sometimes have a hard time accepting another person's because it is different than ours, especially if we score low in their identifier. This makes for extreme tension, lack of empathy, and frustration. No wonder marriages fail when people do not even take the time to learn about themselves much less about their mate or significant other.

In the next few weeks we will learn about all the Destiny Identifiers as well as your G-I-F-T personality traits.

This will not only help you discover the true you, but it will help you know what profession you should aim for, why your children or parents act the way they do, and so much more. It is actually the key to a successful life and a happier and fulfilled marriage. In the next few weeks we will go through each Destiny Identifier and G-I-F-T Personality. Get ready to understand people better than you ever have before.

If you want to know your own G-I-F-T and Destiny Identifiers as we go along, Click Here to take the profile now.

Once you really understand this information your life will be transformed! We will continue to provide you other keys to fulfilling your destiny. That is the whole reason you exist, to know your real calling and purpose in life. This is the place to start and the rest will finally make sense.

Unforgiveness – How to Break Free

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Can you really break free from unforgiveness??

Take a good look at the rope above. How many people have this rope tied around their lives so tight that it is holding them back from moving forward? The bad part, they don't even know it. One of the main goals in life for all humans should be to walk in total forgivenes everyday. Medical studies have even proved that people who harbor unforgiveness end up sick in some way. I once knew a guy in my church that had rheumatoid arthritis that he knew was caused by his unforgiveness, yet he still chose to keep it harbored in his heart. If he does not have an epiphany he will have these ropes tied around him for the rest of his life.

Life will always challenge you with the choice of unforgiveness. Yes, I said CHOICE. All of life is made up of choices that we make. Our choicecs are what keep us bound or set us free. Our choices are the sum total of who we are and who we will become. Everyone has the choice to do drugs, get drunk, steal, cheat, lie, gossip, talk back to our parents, or, whateven negative attribute we choose to do. However, every negative or bad choice has a consequence, and those are what lead to a life filled with pain, dissapointment, hurt, addiction, rejection etc.

When we are faced with a situation, don't think of how your negative friends would respond, or, even your parents if they are wrong. Think about your future life and what you really want to reap from it. I know that I have made some bad choices in life, but if it wasn't for the grace of God I would be bound. However, I have learned a key to living that most people choose not to use and that key is called forgeveness. Unforgeveness is like drinking poison and thinking it will not hurt you. Eventually you are going to get sick and possible die. Unforgivenss allows the other person to control you without you even knowing it.

They win. You lose. End of Story!

I know it is hard when a parent, or good friend, spouse, a teacher, boss, or,  your children hurt you. Even strangers can hurt you deeply, just ask people who have been hurt deeply by strangers on social media that are haters. Life is about knowing what emotions we as humans will feel and experience, and learning how to take control of those emotions. Even justified anger can lead you to a place of dark pain. Start today by cutting off the rope of unforgivenss. Forgive all those that have hurt you. Allow God to go deep into the crevices of your heart and remove it completely. He will if you can just chose to forgive.

I know, because he has done it for me. There have been several people dear to me in my life that have hurt me so bad that it was like sticking a sword through my heart. Yet, somehow, someway I chose to forgive them and let them go. Now I am free and they are accountable because I let go. They will now have to deal with the issues that caused the pain in the first place. Believe me, when you let them go . . . God deals with them. And that is so much better than you trying to.

Today is the day to CHOOSE forgiveness.

 

 

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